Choosing to swing means that you have to get clear about what you want.  Who are you?  What kind of experience do you desire?  What are you afraid of? It's a sorting process once you've decided to open up to including others in your sexual life.
In this episode we untangle these questions and get some answers, as we talk about 3 separate lifestyle experiences we had this year.  The first was at Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto. The 2nd, at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica, and the 3rd at Naughty in N'awlins. What we learned help us to realize just how empowering it can be to be clear about who we are choosing and how to get more of what we want.
Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls  

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Podcasts and Resources Mentioned:

The Priory Society Podcast

Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto

Hedonism Resort, Jamaica

Naughty in N'awlins

So by Peter Gabriel 1984

Remington Steele TV show

Keys and Anklets Podcast

Margo from Nerds Who Swing Podcast

Torrid Souls' Travel Page

 

Interesting Quotes:

  • “So – Peter Gabriel 1984”
  • “Come to the nerd side, We have Pi”
  • “Ego, is not sexy”
  • “Tangled Christmas lights tell me who you are”
  • “Is this someone who is interested, and does what we want to do?”
  • “Neither you nor I ever did the dating thing”

Questions for Listeners:

  • What percentage of the time is “That was an awesome experience”
  • Single Guys VS guys in a relationship who play separately – Is there a diff in how they present themselves?
  • How do you create a successful experience – to be what you want it to be – what the lady would like it to be?
    • How much talking? 
    • How much is too much?
  • Guy who have had experience with 2 women – actually trying to please 2 women – Is it really a difficult thing?
    • Was bubble blown?  Was it not what you had thought it would be?
  • Couples who do hotwife/stag/vixen – How do you find this kind of person?  (bulls who respect the couple dynamic)
  • Bulls – How to find more of you?

Transcript

 

Tori:        Welcome to Torrid Souls. I'm Tori

Soul:        and I'm Soul.

Tori:         We're a same sex female couple …and we're both bisexual.

Soul:         Yes! How awesome is that?

Tori:          So maybe we're not the norm in the lifestyle and maybe our experiences are unique …or are they?

Soul:         We're a couple, very much in love.

Tori:          And like you, we like to spice it up sometimes too. So join us and let our SMEXY lifestyle conversations open your minds

Soul:          and your legs

Tori:           just a wee bit wider.

 

 

Rest of the Transcript coming soon…